Did your SO get lazy/slack in your relationship?

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:40 pm

Just wondering...

My SO seems to be only putting in a fraction of the effort he normally does. I'm not getting half the amount of sex, he doesn't try to maintain his part in our relationship and he's become completely self-involved.

Advice, my KIVers?

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:01 pm

Is there something in the air? My normally sweet, thoughtful, charming SO these last few days has been an a$$. He is out of town doing a course for a few weeks, and barely taken the time of day to talk to me - this coming from someone who normally talks my ear off about anything under the sun, and makes me feel like a queen.
Instead, these last few days have been...I don't have time, suck it up, too f*%&%in bad when I have told him how I am feeling.

I don't get it, and am feeling pretty sad. He says I am overreacting. Its been a year, and haven't seen this type of behaviour before.

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:12 pm

..air? maybe in the water?

mine too. $:\$

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:30 pm

Funny mine too, I was just thinking that in the last week he's spent all of 10mins with me, I'm frustrated and upset.

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 6:14 pm

Maybe it's the hockey season? Mine gets like this around this time of year.

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 8:49 pm

as if I didn't already hate it enough!! :mad:

Anonymous Posts · by **Anonymous Posts** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 8:53 pm

Yep, for the most part. I just chalk it up to getting comfortable in the relationship. He doesn't have to impress me so much anymore and I don't have to shave my legs before we have sex so it all evens out. I will say though that he still pulls his weight in the relationship and at home and with the kid.